Deciding to take the leap into solo travel might feel intimidating, but trust me—it’s one of the most empowering things you’ll ever do. It’s not just about discovering new places; it’s about discovering yourself. You learn to trust your instincts, embrace your independence, and truly enjoy your own company. And let’s be real—it’s also the ultimate flex.
If you’ve been thinking about traveling solo but don’t know where to start, this guide has you covered. From building confidence to choosing destinations and staying safe, I’m here to help you make that first solo trip unforgettable.
Start with Solo Dating
Before you pack your bags and head to a new city or country, get comfortable spending time alone right where you are. Solo dating is the perfect warm-up for solo travel. Take yourself out to dinner, hit up a local museum, or even plan a day trip to a nearby town.
When I started solo dating, I learned how to shake off that initial awkwardness of being alone in public and actually enjoy it. It’s about realizing you don’t need a plus-one to have an amazing time. The confidence you build while solo dating will translate seamlessly into your travel adventures. Bonus? You’ll discover just how good it feels to put your own needs and desires first. I have discovered some of my favorite spots and met some amazing people being out solo. And for my fellow single ladies? It’s a great way to put yourself out there and mingle a little (wink wink).
Best U.S. Destinations for New Solo Travelers
Starting your solo travel journey doesn’t mean you need to jet off to a faraway country right away. There are plenty of amazing spots in the U.S. that are perfect for first-time solo travelers. Here are a few I’ve researched and plan to visit if I haven’t already:
- Chicago, Illinois
The Windy City has it all: world-class museums, iconic architecture, and deep-dish pizza (side-eye as a diehard jersey pizza lover). It’s easy to get around, and there’s plenty to explore on your own, like the Art Institute or a scenic stroll along the Riverwalk. - Austin, Texas
With its laid-back vibe and vibrant music scene, Austin is a great place to ease into solo travel. From food trucks to live music venues, you’ll always find something fun to do—and someone friendly to chat with if you’re feeling social. - Portland, Oregon
This city is perfect for those who love nature and quirky vibes. Explore Powell’s Books (what seems like a solo traveler’s dream) or take a day trip to the nearby Columbia River Gorge for breathtaking waterfalls. - Savannah, Georgia
With its charming squares and historic streets, Savannah is ideal for a slower-paced trip. Grab a to-go cup (yes, it’s legal here) and enjoy a stroll under the Spanish moss-covered trees. As an Atlantan, I might add this to my road trip list soon. - San Diego, California
Beaches, tacos, and perfect weather—what more could you ask for? Spend your days soaking up the sun, exploring Balboa Park, or kayaking in La Jolla.
Safety Tips for Solo Travelers
Safety should always be a priority when traveling solo, but it doesn’t have to feel overwhelming. Here are a few tips to help you stay secure while still enjoying every moment:
Pack Smart: Speaking of staying prepared, check out my blog post on travel essentials! From international plugs to foot hammocks, I’ve got all the must-haves for a smooth and stress-free trip.
Research Your Destination: Learn about the area’s culture, customs, and neighborhoods before you go. Knowing what to expect will help you feel more confident and prepared.
Share Your Itinerary: Let a friend or family member know where you’re going and when you plan to check in. It’s a simple step that goes a long way for peace of mind.
Trust Your Gut: If something feels off, don’t second-guess yourself. Whether it’s switching your seat at a restaurant or declining an invite, your instincts are there to protect you.
Stay Aware: Keep your head up and your phone down when walking around, especially at night or in crowded areas. Confidence and awareness are key.
Solo travel is one of the greatest gifts you can give yourself. It’s about more than just seeing new places—it’s about stepping outside your comfort zone and creating memories you’ll cherish forever.
So whether you start with a solo dinner date, explore a nearby city, or hop on a plane to somewhere completely new, know that you’re capable of making it an incredible experience. And when you’re ready to pack your bags, you know where to find me—I’ll be here, cheering you on every step of the way.
Happy travels! 🌍✈️✨
